Why Has My Wife Lost Her Libido
Author: Peter Hinson
There are many reasons why your wife, girlfriend or lover has lost her libido or desire for making love. And it is very unlikely that they are attributed to you; before you start blaming yourself.
In older women the main cause for a decrease in libido are the symptoms of menopause, such as the changing hormonal balance. In younger women this hormonal imbalance can be caused by a variety of reasons; such as stress, worries, feelings of unattractiveness and more commonly the menstrual cycle. Even before and after pregnancy women lose their desire for sex, which is a natural motherly instinct.
The menstrual cycle affects women in different ways, in most it causes a disinterest for physical contact for the obvious reason that this is not a pleasant time for her. During this period you must show consideration and give her freedom of space. However, at the same it is important to show her affection, but in a delicate and subtle way, such as a gentle caress of her cheek or a supportive gentle kiss; this shows you care.
One of the main factors causing a decreased libido is worry, stress anxiety, depression and insecurity which can lead to a further hormonal imbalance. In severe cases anti-depressive medication may be needed which has a known adverse side-affect subduing sexual arousal.
You may have already experienced that today’s global crises is putting an additional worry on your relationship. But, these tough times can have a positive kick-back more than ever, both sexually and lovingly; by a standing together against this adversity.
How To Put The Spark Back
Do not pressure her, this will only antagonize her, making things worse and regrettable things could be expressed during the heat of the moment, pushing her libido down even further.
The best way to re-kindle her passion and desire is to give her support, affection, love understanding and empathy. Tell her how attractive she is. Tell her your innermost desires and passions; women appreciate being noticed and cared about. This will start to arouse her lustful feelings for you.
Another excellent way to inflame her desires is by her using natural herbal libido enhancers. These are safe, healthy, and without those nasty side effects from prescribed medications Try getting her one as a saucy present; she silently will be praising your initiative, but outwardly she may express doubt about its ability to do anything.
However, deep down inside her there will be a burning curiosity, wondering if it does exactly what it says; I can guarantee that she will not be able to resist its temptation. So when suddenly, she bursts through the kitchen door expressing her desire for you that you haven’t seen since the beginning of the relationship; then you can be assured that her curiosity finally got the better of her.
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About the Author
Peter Hinson LRSC, began his career as a research and analytical chemist. After more than 10 years of working within the chemical and pharmaceutical industries; Peter decided to swap his test tubes for a keyboard and entered into the world of Information Technology.
In 1993 Peter moved from England to Sweden where he established an IT company that specializes in Open Source IT architecture, such as Unix and Linux systems.
Peter had also battled with Acne Rosacea for many years before eventually finding a treatment that worked for him. This had been a long and painful journey which led Peter to open his own Acne Rosacea resource sites,which aims to help others to find a treatment for this debilitating skin disorder.
